Jesse Thorton Sr.(center), his Son, Jesse Thorton Jr.(left) and Curtis Bruce (Coach and Owner of Ambition MMA/Ambition Combat &Fitness), at Jesse’s Bellator MMA Debut. It wasn’t a win, but it was a great show that went all three rounds andwe couldn’t be more proud of Jesse. Jessewill enter the cage again Nov, 1st 2014 at ShamrockFC in KansasCity, Missouri.
Wednesday, October 16, 2013
Tuesday, October 15, 2013
A man this weekend asked a common question, “how much do you guys get paid to fight?” He was shocked when I said we don’t and replied, “even if you win? That’s crooked, you all deserve to get paid.” At first I nodded in agreement, but then, as usual, I got to thinking. What one is perceived to deserve is of little to no consequence. This notion of merit bears no semblance of reality in my sport. The fact of the matter is, a very small percentage of athletes will ever be adequately compensated for the amount of work they put in, the pain and suffering they endure, and the seats they fill. My sport has a tradition of emotional, physical, and spiritual gratification that very few life endeavors can boast, and for this simple reason, even if there was no hope for future financial reward, there would never be an event without a line of fighters pleading their case for an opportunity to compete.
There are a number of reasons why a man or woman in the gym graduate from sparring partner to competitor. Most often, it is not for the promise or expectation of silver and gold. For some, it’s the fact that they’re tired of having to pay for the injuries accumulated in the gym out of their own pocket. They know that, at the very least, if they can make it through the physical exam and into the ring, they can claim to have been hurt during the event and the promotion’s insurance will pay for their recovery. This may sound farfetched and slightly contradictory to some, but to those in the sport, this paradox is known to be commonplace.
I am still relatively new to the competitive aspect of mixed martial arts. I have only had three (sanctioned) fights, and roughly five minutes of cage experience. That being said, the treasure in my sights isn’t one that can be found on a bank statement. Sure it would be nice to look back and say “I made a fortune doing something I love,” but it’s a fool’s errand to assume that’s a guarantee. I simply hope to remain in this sport long enough to become the best human being I can be. What I’ve discovered about myself, and those around me, in such a short amount of time is difficult to describe in words. All I can say is this: if you allow it to, this way of life can teach you to be honest in a mendacious world, loyal and reliable in a den of thieves and traitors, and perseverant in the midst of hopelessness. These qualities are forged from blood, sweat, pain, determination, and camaraderie. They spill over and enhance every aspect of your character, and in my eyes, that’s more than I deserve.
Friday, August 23, 2013
So you decided you want to be a mixed martial mad(wo)man
huh? I’m sure most people, myself included, who have watched a few UFC events have considered the possibility that they themselves have what it takes to make it in this sport. After all, how hard could it really be? It’s only nine minutes of competition and the guys on TV really don’t seem much tougher than you. So you take the liberty to send a mass email to every gym in town; making bold statements about how you’ve got the heart of a champion and asking laughable questions about how soon you could fight if you were to join.
You decide on a gym (probably the least expensive one) without any clue as to what that gym has to offer or what your in for. Depending on the individual they are either so confident that all they want to do is spar and learn submissions OR they are so timid that they think they might just work the bag for a class or two... or ten…. Either way, they discover very quickly that this sport, suffice it to say, is not as easy as it looks.
Most people never return to the gym after their first real beat down. Of those that do, the vast majority decide they’re only in it for a work out. The proud, the brave, and perhaps a bit crazy few who continue to pursue a life in the ring have only begun to scratch the surface as to what being a martial artist means. At this point most wannabe fighters have grasped the concept that blood, sweat, bruises, and soreness are our daily bread.
What only 1% of neophyte combat athletes understand is the difference between tiredness and fatigue. Even fewer are willing to translate this understanding into their practice. The fortitude, dedication, and constitution it takes to push yourself to the point of absolute exhaustion is what separates contenders from champions. By absolute exhaustion I mean the point where you’ve long since passed your minds attempts at telling you to stop. It’s that moment where your brain starts sending erratic signals causing you to lose control over your motor skills. It’s that moment where, try as you might, your muscles stop working the way you tell them to.
The problem most people have in all aspects of life is their belief that being tired is enough; that trying and putting forth an effort amounts to progress. If I could impress any one idea and plant the seed for your next approach to any goal, it would be this: push forward until you have NOTHING left to give, and then push some more. If you do this, success will inevitably come to you. It won’t be easy, in fact, it will seem impossible, but I guarantee that once you get to this level you will become addicted to the results.
There isn’t a secret to success, there are simply a series of paths you can take in regards to your dream. You can move away from it, stay where you are, you can “try,” or you can take matters into your own hands and MAKE IT HAPPEN. Discomfort, pain, exhaustion, and the inability to carry on should be the goal of every training session. Each time you do this you take one step closer to an unbreakable spirit, an unimpressionable mind, and an indomitable will to achieve what most men and women dismiss as unrealistic or unattainable.
Wednesday, August 14, 2013
One of the greatest errors I see made in my sport is the perception of winning and losing as “options.” In fact, I would go as far as to say that believing success and failure are choices an individual makes stunts our performance in all aspects of life. Winning, losing, victory, defeat, success, and failure aren’t decisions we make; they are simply the destination we reach after a long road of options. Choices are something we have control over, and there are simply too many variables in every worthy endeavor life has to offer to assume we have the jurisdiction to claim we choose our outcomes.
Now I’m not saying our lives are predestined or up to fate. I’m not trying to convince anyone that we don’t have some sort of say in our achievements or lack there of. What I am trying to impress upon anyone who takes the time to acknowledge my opinions is the importance of loosening your grip on the notions of winning or losing. Instead, focus on how you approach the journey to whatever challenge or obstacle you’re preparing for. Channel your energy into the choices and options you have genuine control over and let go of everything else.
Rather than worry about winning or losing, concentrate on the day to day choices you face in reaching your destination. Among these options are: giving your best effort vs. half-assing, perseverance vs. cowardice, dedication and discipline vs. complacency, apathy, and chaos. If you seek to better yourself it is as simple as acknowledging your choices and having the courage to make the ones that benefit you most. They are almost always more difficult to initiate and even more so to turn into habits. However, once you have succeeded in consistently making the proper choices, the destination you aspire to reach becomes much more likely.
Now one might question my logic and ask, “well shouldn’t you WANT to win?” and in a word I would respond, “absolutely.” However, that question only serves to legitimize my reasoning; not to mention it seems quite rhetorical and leading, as I can’t imagine anyone WANTS to lose. Wanting anything in life is a desire. Our desires serve to fuel our greatness or confirm a lack of determination and persistence. A desire is the shithead cousin of necessity. The individuals who NEED to improve, who NEED to push forward, and who NEED to achieve their goals are the ones with the mindset necessary to make the proper choices.
Wednesday, July 31, 2013
There’s nothing wrong with using “community equipment” at the gym, other than the fact that it get pretty gross and eventually becomes overused and unsafe to train with. That being said, I have always preferred having something to call my own. I enjoy the bond created with my gear; each piece has a purpose, it all gets frequent usage, and I clean everything religiously. Once you’ve decided you’ve had enough time with the biological experiment that is shared equipment, it’s important to know what exactly to look for.
Everyone wants the highest quality and level of protection for the best price. Some people go to the “Walmarts” of the combat sports world and over look what I consider to be one of the most important factors in the equation: who stands behind the gear. I’ve spent my money at many retailers and websites and it has become surprisingly easy to distinguish which distributors and manufacturers care about the fighters they’re supplying. Now any time I need a new pair of gloves, or shin guards, I only consider buying from those who have proven to be reliable, respectful, and considerate.
I recently purchased a pair of Thai Gloves from sevenfightgear.com. I tried them on and it was the perfect fit. I dislocated my thumb and needed something with sufficient support and padding while still allowing me to feel if I was landing my strikes with proper form. These gloves were more than sufficient, but began to break down pretty quickly; the stitching became loose and the inner lining was getting torn. After similar experiences I expected the worst: that I would be stuck with what I had bought and once again be back in the market, but I couldn’t have been more mistaken.
Seven Fight Gear is a company built for the fighter by the fighter. Less than 12 hours after I notified a representative about my dilemma, he explained to me that the particular model I had received was recently removed from the shelves. He then told me he would send me a pair of the new and improved glove the following morning. Considering the neglect and disregard many distributors and manufacturers have for their consumers (especially in the world of mma) it’s quite refreshing to have a positive and professional experience for once. A tip of the hat to SFG, I am certain to do more business with them in the future and I recommend that any serious fighter do the same.
Tuesday, July 30, 2013
One of the most invaluable assets to a combat sports team is a new body in the gym. Regardless of a new comer’s skill level, they force us to focus and strategize. Without fresh bodies in the gym our sparring sessions become repetitive. Drilling with the same teammates day in and day out we subconsciously learn to recognize patterns. We begin to anticipate our exchanges and the fight loses authenticity. For a team to thrive it needs new members. It needs teammates who want to help each other improve and succeed. It needs teammates who want to learn, make sacrifices, and remain dedicated. In order for these necessities to be met there must be a level of respect shared for everyone willing to take the abuse inherent in our sport.
It is important not to be “that guy” in regards to the treatment of a new training partner. I’m talking about the one that mean mugs anyone they don’t recognize. The one who finds the need to prey on someone with less experience. The one who uses them as a punching bag or submission dumby to practice dangerous techniques. The one who criticizes everything they do wrong without taking note and complimenting their achievements. Not only are you coming off as the team asshole, but you’re disrespecting the sport, dishonoring the team, and dissuading new comers from returning.
Additionally, as a new comer it is equally important not to be “that guy.” The one who gives up every time they get tired or get hit. The one who questions every technique with phrases like, “that’s not how I learned it,” or “well if I do A can’t they just do B?” The one who has an excuse whenever it’s their turn to spar someone better. The one who takes attention away from the coach or trainer or simply stares into space uninterested in what’s being taught.
Hold yourself to the highest standards possible. Hold yourself accountable for the failures and achievements of your team and I guarantee everyone involved will be better for it. Not everyone is going to be a champion, and not everyone will step into the ring, but everyone who completely immerses him or herself in the beauty of this art form will discover more about themselves than they could imagine. Our sport produces strong-willed, persevering, and dedicated individuals; the kind of people who succeed in every worthy endeavor and offer a helping hand to every worthy human being.
Friday, July 26, 2013
How one cultivates and manages self-confidence dictates their place in the yin yang that is mixed martial arts. Confidence exists in a duality that can either propel an athlete to new heights or prevent them from developing their game. Without confidence, training becomes futile. Focus, relaxation, and determination are by-products of healthy confidence, without which information can’t be absorbed and drills won’t resonate. When a martial artist believes in their ability, their form becomes natural and techniques flow without hesitation. They adapt and respond properly in every situation until everything they’ve learned becomes instinctual and reflexive.
Confidence is the life force of combat sports. It is our oxygen, hydration, and nourishment. We take it for granted and only when it’s threatened do we realize how helpless we are without it. Unfortunately, in the endless struggle to build and protect our confidence is a hidden contaminant, ego. Self-centeredness is the evil twin of confidence. It smells, tastes, and feels like the real deal, and without intervention may become contagious. Unlike confidence, an ego is parasitic. It clogs our pores and strangles us. Instead of amplifying our capacity to improve, it convinces us that improvement is unnecessary. It allows us to grow comfortable and complacent in our abilities and our art becomes fruitless and stagnant. An ego is the whisper in our ear that we’re the greatest, that hard work is a thing of the past, that dieting is for beginners.
The biggest problem with an ego is it doesn’t only inhibit the growth of the host. This is because the host exists and trains among the colony. They make excuses for their shortcomings instead of addressing them. Their soul objective becomes “beating” their training partners rather than growing with them. An egotistic fighter consumes time, space, and energy without positively contributing to the collective body. Not only do they exhaust resources, they may influence the conduct of newer members of the team and result in the spreading of unwanted and counterproductive behaviors.
So how exactly does one prevent the denaturing of confidence into an ego?
First and foremost, they practice humility. It is very difficult to produce an ego in the presence of humbleness. Second, stay true and disciplined in your routines. Don’t allow yourself to stray from the training regiment that has shown increasing results. Third, reflect on every training session. Make sense of every achievement and failure and keep everything in perspective. Lastly, address the telltale signs of self-centered behavior. If someone is only sparring the new guys, punches the wall whenever they mess up, gets angry any time someone hits them, or constantly questions the instruction of a coach or trainer, it is your responsibility as a teammate to bring that person back to reality.